He messed up!

Trying to talk to the man in your relationship
about what's going on, and what you're feeling?

Have a few of the same situations come up with
men that went the way of the 2nd story that ended
up breaking apart what seemed to be a great
relationship?

If so, tell me if any of those situations are
below...

- He acts "hot and cold" with you and you don't
know what it means

- You're dating but you're not sure if you're
"exclusive" or not. Is he still dating?

- He doesn't call for several days after you had
a great time together

- As you start getting close, he says he's "not
ready"

- You know it's time for your relationship to
move into a commitment, and you need to talk
about where it's going

- He shuts down and stops sharing his feelings,
and you don't know what's going on

Now, did any of those situations look familiar?

If so, then I bet that it wasn't just that the
situation was difficult for you...

But not knowing WHAT TO SAY was just as
frustrating and painful.

You probably worried that if you said the
wrong thing it would only make things worse with
him.

I get it.

Men are supposed to be grounded, purposeful
and stand tall in the face of challenge.

But then why do men so often pull away and act
scared or uncertain when it matters most?

If you'd like the answers to what's going on
with men in these situations...

And you'd like to know WHAT TO DO and WHAT TO
SAY to a man in these situations to make your
relationship STRONGER...

I know it must be tiring giving the man in

your life ALL your love and attention...

Yet having him act flaky, not present or
resist committing and being there for you?

If you're like lots of women, then it makes
you wonder...

Why am I doing all this?

And...

What does it take to have him start acting
like the partner who's worthy of my love?

Great questions.

If you've found yourself in a relationship
where this was going on for you, there's
something you should know...

The reality is, men have 1 of 3 things going
on if they're with you and NOT showing you the
love and affection you want-

Situation #1:
He's not opening up because he's feeling
emotionally withdrawn to begin with (and it's up
to him to get out of it)

Situation #2:
He's not opening up and sharing his affection
because you keep having conflicts and
"disconnects" in your communication

Situation #3:
He's not opening up and sharing his affection
because he doesn't know how

Which has it been in your relationship?

Knowing which situation you were in can make
you feel better about it for a minute, but here's
where it gets interesting...

When you know how, there's a way to address
ALL 3 of these situations in a way that will feel
easy and effortless.

And more importantly, there's a way to start
getting the response you want from your guy,
without being the one to do all "the work."

I mean, if you choose to share yourself with a
man and love him, you should get back the
affection and attention that a loving partner
should give in the first place.

But... (and here's the tough part)

There's a sad truth for lots of women in
relationships these days.

The truth is... some women NEVER end up
having the kind of relationship with a man
where they are truly free to share their feelings.

No matter how loving they are, and no matter
how much of themselves they give.

Are you done with being one of those women?

Good.

Then here's the thing...

Did you know that the moments where you have
conflict in your relationship, and where you
aren't sure how to say what you're feeling, are
actually opportunities for you to grow CLOSER to
the man in your life?

And for you to grow individually, too.

Of course, if you don't have the right level
of communication in these moments...

And you don't know how to handle them with a
man...

Then these moments will be what breaks your
relationship apart.

Knowing this, let me ask you...

How have men responded to you in the more
intense moments in your relationships in the
past?

Have you found that the man in your life OPENS
UP and supports you more in these tough moments?

Wouldn't it be great to finally have the man

in your life wanting and willing to know how you
were feeling?

Wouldn't it be great to have him inspired to
connect with you and grow closer to you?

If you'd like to keep on experiencing the same
level of disconnection and withdrawal any time
these situations come up again, then don't bother
with this.

On the other hand...

If you're ready to start growing CLOSER as
these moments come up in your relationship, as
they do in every relationship, then now is the
time for you to make it happen.

Best of luck in Life and Love